I don’t know about you but i’ve been guilty of serial monogamy aka serial long term dating. Although you can’t help who you meet or fall in love with, it is important to take time to heal so that you aren’t taking baggage into your new relationship. During this time you can reconnect with yourself and reflect on the things that need improvement.
It’s like, you go from one relationship to the next before you get to the point where you realize, wait a minute who am I? What do I want?
Whether time by yourself was your own choice or maybe even forced onto you, we’ve all had to come to this point.
Well, I’m here now and it’s going better than I had expected. Mind you this is still pretty new so come ask me in a month or so. lol. I’m kidding! I’m truly enjoying my own company and this blog is just an extension of that.
To me it feels like getting to know someone or trying to court myself. I’m appreciating the time I’m getting to be still and listen to my own thoughts without the distraction of anybody else. Being fully vested in my own desires and not having my efforts divided. I think, no, I know I deserve this time.
On the other hand, I must say that being alone has required some getting used to. Nonetheless, I can definitely get used to this!
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